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04 November 2008 @ 09:51 pm
 
What the fuck did I do wrong?!?!?!?!? OMFG seriously, you guys.... Wanna know more?
 
 
 
Big Mattmacdaddynorm on November 5th, 2008 06:48 am (UTC)
I totally stand behind your wording in that. I don't see anything wrong with what you said. Purge is the correct word to use there. But one question, are you trying to keep Nathan in your life? I ask because of the comment he left on it.
Mikeavellixaositecte on November 5th, 2008 08:18 am (UTC)
Hi!

I had to purge someone once.

Nasty business, involved de-friending and blocking them on Myspace, Facebook, AIM, Phone numbers, and arranging things socially so I'd never be in their presence ever again. Its something you do when you not only don't want to see that person again, but its unhealthy for you to be around them.

I don't really know you and Nathan well enough to make that judgment. If your relationship really was bad enough to need to force him out of your life completely, then you used the right word.

If not? Well, you might want to think about what words you use in the future :P.

Either way, the real reason I'm commenting is because we need to hang out at some point before you're flying away to see Jen. Gimme a call or something.
Heather Joneszerocoolphreak on November 6th, 2008 02:35 pm (UTC)
I have tomorrow/today off work... I will try to remember to give you a call! Maybe we gets coffee?
theeinherjar on November 5th, 2008 10:43 am (UTC)
I think you used the right word regardless of how he or anyone else takes it. Honestly a little ex bashing is to be expected after a breakup period. Oh also *rolling his eyes at Jen* It's only slanderous if it is untrue.
Heather Joneszerocoolphreak on November 6th, 2008 02:36 pm (UTC)
I know, right!? Journalism FTW!
Jen Bushsuperfrau on November 5th, 2008 12:56 pm (UTC)
Hihi to Binky
Personally, I think you didn't expect for Nathan to read that, and that's where it went wrong.

However, I know you are much happier, and you feel better about attempting to change your relationship with Nathan. You didn't purge your life of Nathan, HE chose to cut off contact. I think you were more trying to say that you were purging a relationship that left you feeling negatively about your life, and yourself. And I think that people are taking things too seriously. Its a public forum, yes, but it's also YOUR forum, and people vent on their blogs all the time and say much worse things.
melacoma on November 5th, 2008 06:49 pm (UTC)
I'll tell you where you went wrong.
I am really at a point where I don't care what the fuck you do. It doesn't bother me, I want you and Jared to be happy and things to work out for you both. But do you really think I was going to completely stop reading your journal and your myspace? Hey I might have said I didn't want to talk to you anymore, but I'd be lieing if I said I could completely stop paying attention to you and your life. My problem is not with anything your doing, my problem is with how it seems like you want to rub your happiness in my face and exclaim off of rooftops how much better life is without me. That is where you went wrong.

The first time I read that mushroom sexcapades post I was upset. But not because of the fact that your doing that kind of thing, but that you didn't consider my feelings enough to make that a post I couldn't read. I just feel like crap, because yeah I've moved on and I am really fucking happy with things in my life, but I still care about you a lot. I still care about your feelings and that you're happy. But it seems like you really don't care about me like that anymore, and that makes me feel like crap.

Oh and calling our relationship hell? Seriously? I am going to quote your dad here, "Don't forget about the good times too."... Ok I guess that's all I am going to say. I'm sure we'll a chance to talk about this more sometime.
dirtylittlefly: Fallingdirtylittlefly on November 5th, 2008 10:46 pm (UTC)
Breakups suck
This back and forth right here is completely normal, I'm sure you know. You explanatory comment was a bit on the rough side but as for the original word "Purge" you SO did not compare him to fecal matter!! haha it's just downright HILARIOUS that someone would even go there. By using the word "purge" your real sin is having a developed vocabulary- Bravo!
Heather Joneszerocoolphreak on November 6th, 2008 02:40 pm (UTC)
Re: Breakups suck
:-D
xbrianmaidenx on November 6th, 2008 04:59 am (UTC)
Whatever, dude. Fuck all that shit. If people want to get mad at you over one word, then they obviously haven't been reading your blogs or LJ for the last few years! I know we don't hang out, but I have known you for a long time and have seen the ups and downs in your relationship.. and for the record I was witness to many more DOWN (and by down - I mean way the fuck down there) times than good ones. You are a colorful, exciting, and absolutely rockin' person and your personalities did not match. I am surprised it lasted as long as it did. I have nothing against Nathan, but know you WILL be much better off without him as he will be without you. If your "friends" are going to flip you shit for making a statement, maybe they should read back over the last couple years of your jabber and make a new judgment. I think all the slander was completely uncalled for and quite frankly as immature as it could have been.

The bottom line is - I am happy for you and look forward to reading more and more happy posts. If anyone has a problem with reading about how much your life kicks ass, they don't deserve to know in the first place. Godspeed, sister.

P.S. If I has to be a Care Bear - I'd be the Lion guy that breaks everything.
Heather Joneszerocoolphreak on November 6th, 2008 02:40 pm (UTC)
Yes, the lion rocks! My first choice is Love-a-Lot, hands down, but the Lion is definitely my 2nd choice.
Big Mattmacdaddynorm on November 6th, 2008 08:44 pm (UTC)
I will be bedtime bear cause i'm sleepy, and in bed.
Widerstandcircuitsjournal on November 6th, 2008 02:45 pm (UTC)
Seems like to me from just what I have read seeings how I really don't know anything about this Nathan guy and well I haven't seen you in years that Nathan seem like a baby about things... Thats just my point of view.
Heather Jones: big smilezerocoolphreak on November 6th, 2008 03:11 pm (UTC)
I concur!