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20 April 2007 @ 04:16 pm
How would you like it if someone waltzed right in and took something from right in front of you that they knew you wanted? Thanx a lot, fuck you too. I don't care anymore because this is fucking bullshit!
I'm feeling...: pissed offpissed off
Nathannatetheoriginal on April 21st, 2007 12:37 am (UTC)
Like I said to you in private:

I realize I could have possibly made more account of your established interest and candy's dialogue with you concerning your interest in being a mod, and made my empathy of your feelings more obvious and given you more recognition of what you had already done for that community and how involved you were. And made it more obvious that I didn’t want to steal that away from you.

But my point is that I really shouldn't have to, it would be so much nicer for both of us if you just knew already that I wouldn't never want to take something like that away from you. And my interest only stemmed from the fact that I just wanted to be part of it and the great things you were already doing and could do as a mod.
Heather Joneszerocoolphreak on April 21st, 2007 01:17 am (UTC)
And guess what, I can't read your mind and your actions were telling me otherwise. I seriously do not fucking care anymore. It's not the community thing that upset me, it was your actions. Actions speak louder than words, especially when there are no words said! All you had to tell me in the beginning was that you'd like for us to do that together. But this doesn't even matter because she never even asked you to be a mod, so just drop it. All I am looking for is an apology now, because I apologized to you and you wouldn't accept it. I don't want us to argue about this anymore, because i am not even arguing about the original reason, which doesn't matter at all. I was upset over your complete disregard for me and how you don't understand why that upset me. I can't believe you don't even want to apologize to me!
Nathannatetheoriginal on April 21st, 2007 01:22 am (UTC)
Honestly the only thing I am really sorry about is how I snapped and signed off suddenly, I got more angry than I should have. I was really trying to keep my cool but you make it so hard sometimes. I am not in the least bit sorry about how I handle things before that, and I never will be sorry for that, because I know with all my heart that I am in the right about this.
Nathannatetheoriginal on April 21st, 2007 01:35 am (UTC)
Complete disregard for you?

You got to be kidding me.

All because I didn't mention you. All because I didn't make it more obviously that I wanted what you wanted. YOU SHOULD KNOW ALREADY, I shouldn't have to reassure you all the time.

You have no right to get as upset by my actions as you are, and like I said I stand by them completely.

You also make no acknowledgement of the point I am trying to make, and furthermore I don't care about the original issue anymore either, I care about how YOU unreasonably acted and how you are continuing to do so.

You do owe me an apology but until you can figure out what for there’s no need to peruse this any further.
gh0st_towngh0st_town on April 21st, 2007 03:39 pm (UTC)
Dang, I had no idea that community was so important to you. If you'd like, I'll let you run the Camas livejournal.
Heather Joneszerocoolphreak on April 23rd, 2007 06:43 am (UTC)
It wasn't actually that important, it was just the principle of the matter... Really, it was a huge misunderstanding due to lots of missing information.
Christy Smedberghey_jude_04 on April 23rd, 2007 01:14 am (UTC)
Stealing is WRONG
That's happend to me a lot so I know how you feel. there's a saying,"Don't get mad get even." Found out what that person would really like to have, then at the worse posible time take it from them. If they bitch, just tell them "payback's a bitch aint it?" then remind them of what they took from you.
It's a nasty trick but hey, it get's your point across and most times the person dosn't do that again.